Comments on: Why It’s Hard to Stick to a Diet (& What to Do About It) https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/ Simple Answers for Healthier Families Sun, 13 Mar 2022 14:23:53 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: Angel https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-472744 Sun, 13 Mar 2022 14:23:53 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-472744 In reply to Donna.

Bright Line Eating

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By: Lyn https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-349769 Sat, 16 Jun 2018 17:40:15 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-349769 These are great suggestions! I have a terrible sweet tooth, so something sugary was usually my snack of choice. I stopped buying sweet stuff and stocked up on fresh veggies. So now I snack on sliced bell peppers, carrots, celery sticks, etc. It made it easier to lessen how much sugar I was eating, and I lost 8 1/2 pound over a month without really trying!

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By: Jessica https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-300372 Tue, 27 Sep 2016 19:30:46 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-300372 In reply to Sarah.

I agree. I don’t know if you’re still having the same problems, but seeing a doctor might be your best bet. They may be able to get you paired with a dietitian who can help with the texture sensitivities. You’re probably not sleeping well due to the amount of caffeine you’re drinking. And you’re probably feeling sick from the sugar withdrawal after cutting back the sugar amount in all the soda.

I’ve drank soda for years. Not at the same rate, but until now I’ve never found a good substitute. It’s a Chai tea. Not the full fat authentic stuff, but just the Celestial Seasonings kind. After it’s done steeping I add 1 serving of the coffee mate French Vanilla creamer in and then ice the whole thing. It gives me the sweetness I’m craving and the cardamom and other spices make me feel full. It’s been a Godsend. It doesn’t even really taste like tea either.

The thing that has helped me the most, besides the tea, is thinking about the damage I’m doing to my internal organs with all the unhealthy food and drinks I consume. You can still treat yourself and indulge once in awhile. I think it would be unhealthy not to. But it’s about moderation. Please go visit a doctor to help you feel better for you.

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By: Sarah https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-270904 Mon, 21 Dec 2015 00:03:41 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-270904 In reply to Hanna.

Interesting comment. Out of curiosity what are you eating instead. It’s so confusing as to what to eat and is actually considered healthy. There’s so much conflicting advice and pseudo science being bounded around. I don’t know where to start!

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By: Hanna https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-268767 Sat, 05 Dec 2015 04:40:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-268767 In reply to Cassandra Roy.

Thank you for your comment, Cassandra Roy, I think you’re spot-on. I agree with everything you said, and way to go for telling it like it is!

When I first started eating nutrient dense, and giving up processed sugar (which I didn’t think I ate a ton of–until I started giving it up!) among other things, I was a little stumped at what to eat, and you’re right….carrot sticks do not cut the cravings! I find, since eating better, I don’t crave any food anymore at all….I used to get intense cravings for certain things at different times, but now I don’t crave anything. Also, you are so right when you said when you do cheat from eating nutrient dense, it makes me feel so bad that it resolves your mind to never do it again! I’ve yo-yoed back and forth a lot this year, but have only just begun this year, and am still learning new things to contribute to my resolve to NEVER go back to how I ate before…….

I love hearing about others who know about REAL food, nutrient dense, and truly nourishing food (it validates what I’ve learned, and makes me feel like I know what I’m talking about). These blogs are awesome, because it helps connect people that way, and we need all the help and support we can get!

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By: Sean Smith https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-266601 Fri, 20 Nov 2015 13:42:58 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-266601 In reply to Jinny.

Don’t replace sugar with artificial sweeteners.

Research and understand how artificial sweeteners cause weight gain.

A craving is a chemical reaction.

Try a low carb induction style diet to break your sugar craving. Step down easy if you need to (100 carbs, 40, 20), then switch to a whatever diet if low carb isn’t for you.

Be wary of high fructose corn syrup. While aspartame makes me “quietly” crave more aspartame, I’ve found HFCS triggers severe sugar cravings and for 18 hours plus.

After you have cleared sweeteners/sugar from your diet, note how you respond to high carb/high starch foods. This is a key step to avoiding a runaway re-addiction.

Remember, EVERYONE is on a diet. Some are better than others. Eliminating artificial sweeteners and understanding and controlling sugar intake will change your diet for the better.

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By: Shannon https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-246199 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 02:08:52 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-246199 The importance of sleep, or the certain times to sleep,is discussed often on this site and I am not sure of the reasons. What I do know is no matter what, I won’t even bother to say “how hard I try” because I don’t, I just do not sleep like a “normal person” should. It’s 9:34p.m. I’m just getting started. Started doing what? Work? Making a present for someone? Making a beautiful oven dinner?
None of the above. I haven’t even had dinner. I did make a list and I filled up the paper. There is a few things, like laundry, but will I do it? More than likely I will find something interesting on the internet that has nothing to do with anything in my life. I will become more and more fascinated with every page I read about it. Note taking will begin, I will see that it is 3am, realize I have not grocery shopped in a year or so, slap that on the list. Feel somewhat accomplished.
The the next thing I know its 6 or 7 am. But if I don’t have an appointment the next day I could care less. As long as I get 7 to 8 hours, I don’t care when I go to bed. I don’t get tired.
As long as I am making it to appointments, prepared and clean, rested and the cat is fed, why does it matter when I go to sleep?
When I was 3 or 4? My bed was loaded up with toys. This was a desperate attempt by my mother to keep me occupied and in my bed and not downstairs bothering her. As long as I stayed in bed ( except the bathroom) and was quiet ( My mom’s version of me resting I guess) then I was fine. I remember playing all kinds of make believe games, staying on my bed mind you, and being awake even when she came up to bed.
I guess I am not hardwired to sleep at night. It is nice and quiet and you can get things done. Easy to think and stay focused.
HOWEVER=If someone were willing to give me some really earth shattering reasons why sleeping at night was good for you, I might consider it. However, keep in mind, I sleep from 7am to 1, or 6-3, etc. I do sleep, I do get the R.E.M.
Speaking of, I have Restless Leg Syndrome. Besides the obvious, you are not supposed to get your R.E.M at all without medication. I am lucky enough that I started having dreams again without the medication, but no dreaming is really bad for you I think. Your dreams are how you work out things in your life, replay events you didn’t realize effected you, etc. They are in no way random and they are VERY important.
Like I said, I just recently started having dreams again. I missed them. If I am dreaming, I am getting R.E.M. This was the problem when I worked as well. The problem is that the sleep cycle that brings the dreaming doesn’t come till the very, very end of the hours you chose to sleep. You do not hear alarms, they are faint in the background of the dream, people calling to try and wake you up is an annoying sound, etc. I am not sure if this has anything to do with the days I sleep for many hours. All I know is that I will not complain. I take several medicines and for years they wiped out my creativity and my dreams. I did not add or drop any medicines except maybe adderal and suddenly I am not a robot anymore. I am a real live girl. If I have dreams if I were to sleep at night, provided I get Earth shattering reasons why just because the moon is down its better to sleep then. Then maybe I will give it whirl for a month or so.
But, I eat ( poorly) take my supplements, vitamins and medicines. I feed the cat. Take care of things around the house that I remember. Its just like a day but switched. Please Enlighten me.
Thank you,
Shannon

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By: Susan https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-242487 Wed, 08 Jul 2015 08:52:36 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-242487 In reply to Sarah.

Sarah – I love Coke and Pepsi, but do not consume at the rate you are. I’m wondering if you should check this out with a doc. Maybe he/she can suggest alternatives to substitute that are palatable. It sounds like you have been way out of balance in a potentially dangerous way. The symptoms you have when cutting way down might be withdrawal. You need to learn to love the healthier foods and it may take some professionals to get you on track. I hope you kick this! For me, I can enjoy salads, steamed vegetables, fruit smoothies, poultry. I still eat junk food every day – hamburgers and hot dogs, and maybe 2 servings of soda per day. No fries or onion rings, but I do go on binges. I’m worried about you because it sounds like you don’t like very many foods at all. That will make it harder.

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By: Sarah https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-220538 Sun, 22 Feb 2015 22:58:02 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-220538 I’ve been addicted to Diet Pepsi for years. Last year around this time I quit cold turkey and started doing P90X every single day. I noticed that after I quit Diet Pepsi I was able to focus clearly on weight loss and fitness. I was sticking to the schedule religiously and lost 5 pounds within the first few weeks. I found that drinking Diet Pepsi made my thinking cloudy and my energy levels low. For whatever reason, I ended up getting back on the sauce (Diet Pepsi) after making some great progress, only to get into worse eating habits then I had before. I didn’t gain 10 pounds or anything, but after starting Diet Pepsi up again I felt terrible again…low energy levels, no focus and lousy nights rest. I’m determined now to get off of this soda once and for all and stick to my exercise regime.

What did I replace my soda with? Graham Cracker Muscle Milk Protein shakes (2 a day) and water.

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By: Donna https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-216733 Tue, 27 Jan 2015 01:19:06 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-216733 I am a 44 year old woman that has struggled with her weight since forever. I have lost dramatically and then gain double. I am very happy when I am at a healthy weight but for some reason and no particular day I just give up . I am not a fan of junk bagged food , my problem is the amount of food I eat in one sitting. If I am eating rice or a pot roast I have to eat twice , or worse until there is nothing inside the whole pot. The worse is that I am not satisfied until my stomach feels that it is about to explode . I did a basal metabolism check up and the doctors didn’t find any hormonal problem. I feel like a child without any control, I feel weird because here I am a grown woman spoiling my health and happiness for an unknown reason and without control. Can somebody give me any advice I would appreciate it

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By: Dani https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-212145 Tue, 30 Dec 2014 21:14:53 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-212145 I also want to add–though I realize it’s not what the author is addressing here–that sometimes the reason we don’t “stick to” a diet, new habit, or other long-term change is that it turns out not to work for us.

It can be very hard to intuit the difference between resisting change despite its potential gains, and resisting change because of its harmful effects…both situations tend to announce themselves with the overall feeling of “This Sucks!” But fighting that feeling when it’s telling you something important can be WAY more harmful than whatever you were trying to correct.

TL/DR: Some diets (and resolutions, and situations, and relationships) don’t actually deserve to be stuck to. It’s really important to be able to tell the difference.

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By: Ingrid https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-203310 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 05:26:11 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-203310 Every person has beliefs about food and how it affects them, and how their body should respond to the foods they eat. Some of these beliefs come in from our ancestors. These are beliefs that help us survive. Examples of these are “I need to eat more now, because there may be none later.” “I need to store as much fat as possible in case there is a shortage.” “My body will always be fat.”
Sometimes these beliefs are buried deep in the subconscious, and the person is unaware that they are there. So when the person begins to lose weight, the subconscious belief kicks in, and the person suddenly develops an insatiable appetite, or maybe they just can’t motivate themselves to go to the gym.
Suddenly the person has gained more weight that the original amount that they lost. Thetahealing is a way to find these beliefs and change them to something beneficial like, “There is always plenty.” “Eating less is better.” “I enjoy eating healthy foods.” The process of finding the beliefs is fast, and the beliefs are changed instantly. Sessions can be done over the phone!
You can go to “Ingrid Muller Dobbins-Thetahealer” on Facebook, or to http://www.thetahealing.com and search for certified practitioner Ingrid Dobbins for more information.

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By: K.L.Richardson https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-171093 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 20:44:55 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-171093 In reply to Kris.

I have a Vitamix and because it blends and freezes so well I can make a good substitute for ice cream and still have it healthy. It takes a little experimenting but basically I pack a couple handfuls of baby kale (yes it makes green ice cream-so?) your choice of frozen fruits; I like pineapple, green grapes, granny smith apple, some lemon juice and a bit of mint leaves. I also add a couple teaspoons of coconut oil , the solid oil never liquify’s and it blends all together nicely, plus it’s good for you. The kale needs to go on the bottom or the frozen fruit will freeze up and the kale won’t be blended. Add enough water or fruit juice 1/2 cup give or take and set it on high. I found out quite by accident that it freezes. Maybe not rock hard, more like a home made sorbet but if you have patience you can stick it in the freezer. It got me passed ice cream and the horrible stomach cramps it gave me.

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By: Linda https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-48278 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 00:04:49 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-48278 In reply to Cassandra Roy.

Fat that you eat does not provide leptin. Leptin is an “adiposity hormone” that is produced by fat cells within living tissue. It is destroyed when living cells die (as in meat, unless you eat it straight from the slaughter), and also destroyed by your own digestive enzymes when you eat the meat/fat.

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By: Sarah https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-36561 Wed, 20 Nov 2013 04:53:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-36561 my issue is that i drink prolly 2 to 4 24 packs of reg mountain dew. or even more. i eat 1 small meal a day. and thats usually pasta with a tony bit of butter. i cant get out of this habit no matter what i do. i even tried a different sauce.. and cut back to 2 cans a day and i get horribly sick. sounds silly but im sooooo addicted to soda its bad but weird thing im losing alot of weight. even drinking tons of soda. I cant stand coffee, teas, or bubbly water.. or even water alone… ive tried so hard to find a different drink.. but they are sooooo disgusting i gag… i dont touch nuts, almonds, or any type of health food. i cant stand them… i feel like a rabbit… its gross. but the same time if i dont figure out what works for me ill have really bad kidney stones. HELP!!! but also my sleeping pattern is basically i sleep 6 hours every 4 days. been doing that for yearrrssss… If anyone can help me.

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By: Malissa McCartney https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-18194 Wed, 02 Jan 2013 01:54:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-18194 I love this post! I have kicked a serious food addiction and lost 160 pounds in the process. I recently led a weight loss program in my church. One problem I noticed was some people were so negative, always lamenting about everything they were giving up. I was costantly telling people, you have to have a plan, and you have to focus on what you can eat and activites you can do rather than what you think you’re missing out on. And beyond that, it really helps if you have specific goals outside of just giving up a bad habit. Nobody gives up junk food just for the fun of it, but you may realize you need to do it to be healthier – and then you then have a new bunch of positive things to focus on, like losing weight, feeling better, having more energy, looking better ect. It makes a world of difference in being committed enough to reach your goals.

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By: Kris https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-14824 Tue, 28 Aug 2012 18:58:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-14824 In reply to Jinny.

Be creative – find ways to combine raw fruit with fat. Cheese and fruit. Peanut butter and apples. Also, I found that my sugar cravings were related to my energy level. Anemia, blood sugar lows, and just plain being tired made me crave sweets. When I started attacking my energy level problems, the cravings disappeared. Pay attention to when the cravings happen, and see if there is a pattern to them.

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By: Brenda Arincorayan https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-10728 Tue, 03 Jul 2012 17:25:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-10728 I love it! “Nature abhors a vacuum”  So true! What a great reminder 🙂

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By: Daise https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-10417 Mon, 25 Jun 2012 21:44:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-10417 In reply to Azure.

Our family had a Reverse Osmosis system for 20 plus years before the damage set in. For many years alternative health advice was given to me that Reverse Osmosis water will strip your body of minerals. Well it finally did, in the form or leg cramps. My MD did Ultrasound and Cat Scans and finally tried to tell me that everyone gets them. But I felt there was a more logical reason than “everyone gets them” I could not sprint across the street without gettting a cramp in my calf. After peeling back several layers, my AK Chiropractor found my mineral levels were too low and suggested a regiment of minerals and drinking Fiji water. It worked? After 2-3 years of pain in my legs and calves, the problem was solved! I now not only do not drink RO water, I recently began drinking Kangen water. It alkalinzes your body, because our environment and the foods we eat are too acidic, which cause inflammation in our body, leading to weakened immune systems.

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By: Jinny https://wellnessmama.com/mindset/stick-to-a-diet/comment-page-1/#comment-10368 Sat, 23 Jun 2012 15:30:00 +0000 http://wellnessmama24.wpenginepowered.com/?p=5260#comment-10368 Okay, everyone’s talking about salty and crunchy … what about cutting that sweet tooth?  It’s summer and I have 4 kids …. always ice cream in the house.  I can’t eat gluten so I am careful about that, but I CRAVE the sweets.  Ice cream, chocolate, tapioca, rice pudding, any pudding!  It’s not just the ‘sugar’ or I’d be happy with fruit.  It’s the sugar and fat together that I think I crave.  It is absolutely an addiction.  I told my doctors 10 yrs ago that this sweet tooth thing was an ADDICTION for people and they disagreed.  I’m so happy to see that they’ve changed their tune but I still can’t repair my addiction.  Like the article says, I can cut it for a certain amount of time … almost going through DT’s but eventually something gets triggered again and the problem comes back.  Having a truly acceptable and satiable alternative is a great idea but I don’t see that in the list of snack alternatives. 

HELP!  

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